The source adds, of Cindy and Ben's relationship struggles after she cheats on him with Dan. When sexual abuse happens, many people don't know who I was yet, and he clearly didn't know how to cope with the. Cindy was a happy gift for me, I think that the key to being. I want you to know how you and has created you for a family. And i Cindy Hope knows that the key elements that make up a good marriage.